Those skin tight pants.....

Assalamu'alaikum  and hi everyone......


Sudah terlalu lama berehat dari menulis....antara sebabnya adalah kemalasan yang amat ketara, kurang inspirasi untuk menulis dan juga tiada ilham untuk menulis...

Walaubagaimana pun, hari ini terpanggil untuk menulis, not to inspire anyone or to share anything new, just to let out my inner most feelings or to broadcast my opinion about fashion...I heard some chuckles...!! I could read minds sometimes....especially now and someone has this in his/her mind..." what!!!she has opinion about fashion..!! what does she know about fashion..?? she, the most unfashionable woman I have known wanna talk about fashion...!!! please world, spin faster and send her into oblivion......hahahaha!!! Beware I am also a mind reader....without meeting you in person..!! opps!!

Okay dokay people....about fashion, what I think about it..??

Many people especially women have become a victim....they or we would and will do anything in the name of fashion.....rushing to the malls, long Q in the limited edition sale, spending money earned, not yet earned or money we don't have to buy something in the current trend or latest fashion.Buying not just clothes, but must be with matching accessories, bags, shoes, necklace, etc etc...and nowadays....scarves!! 

Sometimes...people even forget that not everything nice on other people would also be nice on them, so  instead of becoming attractive, one may look funny on that expensive outfit..!!

One current, not the latest but still very popular is tight/skinny pants, trousers or jeans...looking at the public, wow!! everyone is wearing skinny tight jeans....can't help looking sometimes, not in admiration or in awe....BUT..on the contrary...

In my humble opinion, skinny tight pants are ONLY nice on babies and toddlers....they look cute in these..but hey!! we are talking about a group of kids who look cute in anything anytime....even when they are not wearing anything...opps!! censored!! hehehehe...

So people!! If you are above 4 year old....it does not matter how pretty you are or you think, you are, you look funny wearing that tight pants...get rid  of them , or don't wear  them in public.....especially those skin colored ones and especially so if you are wearing short shirt or T shirt and obviously not baby T.....

Those skin tight pants or jeans are meant to be worn at home only..?? Really...?? Especially so for ladies wearing scarf  or headgear....and definitely a no no for those big and pear shaped....

Okay....time to stop before every lady out there want to kill me....

I am sorry if I have offended anyone, this is just an opinion from a nobody....does not carry any weight and you may still want to wear those tiny skinny tight......sleep tight and PEACE!!!

Until the next posting, take care and be healthy.....

We are all here for special reasons

Fear only exist in mind...???

 

Hello Everyone.....

I don't know whether I am getting busier or lazier....but whatever it is, it is not good because ..having a blog and updating it only whenever I have the urge is no good." Might as well U don't have one..."...I heard the inner voice inside my head is saying....and I have heard it so many times, it has lost it's significance...the thing about blog or note in FB is, it allows me to write whatever I feel like writing or feel like telling the world...things that have great impact on me and wanna share with people around me esp the people very dear and near to my heart...but sometimes, it is either they are too far away, they are too busy to listen, they could not care at all or for the very fact that what is important and big to one person is really of no big deals to many other people....


Therefore...be able to let it out in the open on computer screen...is as good as telling someone...and if the writing is up to my own standard, then  I just hit the publish button and out it goes for the world to read....and if they are below par...all I have to do is keep them as draft for editing when I am in my productive moods or if I just hit the miraculous delete button...all the effort and time spent writing will be reduced to nothing...gone forever, well..technically speaking...yes, they are gone...


Anyway...yesterday, while driving on my way here for a conference...I missed the exit to Ayer keroh and had to drive all the way to Merlimau/Jasin exit...which is about 30km away...Why did I missed the exit,..??Other then the fact that there were way too many heavy vehicles on the road almost filling up the whole stretch of left lane...My mind was also very busy with so many things...thinking and talking to myself, all at the very same time...and yes..you are right...I am currently in Malacca...staying at the Equatorial Hotel and writing this entry instead of out there..having dinner with friends..going for fresh ikan bakar or even strolling at the nearby Jonker Street...


Probably one of the very first sign of aging is our laziness to be out there for no reason...I have no reason to be at Jonker Street..I am not hungry, again no reason to go out for dinner and even the smell of freshly grilled fish does not tempt me to spend my evening outside the comfort of my room...oh my...oh my...I don't want to grow old and become senior citizen yet....!!!!!


Oh my....My mind has wandered outside the topic I wanna share with the world again!!!

Anyway...
Back to the highway yesterday...I paid the tol at the Merlimau exit and was told that I would be able to go to Bandar Hilir much easier from here than making a U turn to Ayer Keroh...and of course, I thought so too...BUT soon..I found myself driving on a deserted road and started doubting myself...am I on the right road?But I did not see any junction since I paid the tol...??Could I have missed it...??Impossible...!!!Oh My...I was thinking real hard if I should take another route, when I saw the light at the end of the tunnel....YES..!!! I could see the road was coming to end at the T junction and there was a signboard...and silently but happily I said Alhamdulillah...many times until I lost the count.....

 

 

Anyway...this time around...It was very slow driving.That was my very first time seeing a different sight of Malacca...The road I was travelling was single lane, lined by palm trees on both sides.I had travelled so many times to Malacca..it has almost became my second home few years back...but of course...I only had seen mostly the Urban area, the fast growing and developing historical city of Malacca...not the so called country side..and it was a very new experience yesterday...nevertheless, finally I came to a traffic light junction....going right towards the city centre, about 22km away...there was not many cars and was easy to drive fast, not realising I was going at almost 140-150km/H...But, It felt the longest 22km I have driven my whole life...why??? I keep asking myself....I was going fast, only 22km away and yet it felt the longest...I still could not find the answer to this question...not even until now...why I felt it was the longest 22km I had ever travelled??


At the end I saw the sign board to Bandar Hilir,and though I was very apprehensive and unsure,somehow..there was a deep seated feeling that everything will just be alright...all these while, whenever I travelled for the very first time any where, somehow I always managed to find the place without difficulty, as if God has always been there for me...be it day time or in the middle of nite...on busy or deserted roads...God has helped me everytime...and probably because I had almost always believed it...never felt fearful and doubtful...and whenever I encountered problem on the road, almost instantly helps came in so many ways and forms...I could not stop feeling grateful, eventhough I thought it was a normal everyday kind of thing....and this time, yet again God has shown me his love, guided my instinct and giving me confidence...despite being on that different route and road for the very first time, I reached my destination smoothly without a hiccup... from A to Z...longer  and different but smooth all the way...and precisely at 5 minutes to 6pm...I parked my car at the hotel Basement carpark.( shhhhh!!!! don't tell this to anyone...BUT the carpark in this hotel is the lousiest one I have seen and been to so far...)

Thinking and pondering...I am very thankful to The Almighty...despite all my shortcomings, my wrong doings and all my sins...He has been very generous, merciful and loving towards me....Alhamdulillah.

 

 

My...my...I believed I have emptied my mind temporarily...I have poured out  what was occupying my mind yesterday...What I have writen this very minute, and what you are reading now is not half as good as the original script within my head yesterday...but until I became disciplined enough to write ideas before they are gone or before they are taken to the  back stage of the mind...you probably will not be reading any highly rated manuscripts or notes from me...just accept me as I am, read this as a piece of junk mail for entertainment purposes, or as it is so easy nowadays...just hit whatever button on your computer infront of you...and I promise you..I will disappear, until..further decision by you...hehehe...

 

Until my next post...remember ; that fear is all in your mind...live with passion and take care......

 

 

 

Kalau anda tidak dapat melindungi mereka, janganlah jadi golongan yang menyakiti mereka...

Assalamu'alaikum selamat sejahtera semua....


Telah lama saya tidak menjenguk blog ini, apa lagi menulis sesuatu atas permukaan putih jernih ini.Bukan disebabkan kesibukan yang melampau, juga bukan kerana terlalu kegersangan idea yang mahu dikongsikan dengan dunia maya, lantaran alasan yang boleh saya berikan adalah kegagalan untuk meningkatkan motivasi diri agar menulis terus, walau tiada yang mahu membaca.

Hari ini saya mahu meluahkan apa yang terbuku dihati setelah melihat dan membaca tentang beberapa perkara yang agak menyedihkan berlaku kebelakangan ini.Saya juga cuba menulis sepenuhnya dalam Bahasa Malaysia, satu bahasa yang mudah dan indah....walaupun sebenarnya agak susah juga untuk dizahirkan dengan petikan jejari pada huruf2 pada kekunci komputer ( gagal di sini..?? ).

Hari ini, cuaca agak baik, mendung sekejap tanpa langit menitiskan airmata, namun ada masa nya agak terik panahan sang mentari, jadual harian agak padat dari pagi hingga ke malam, memenuhi kehendak kehidupan di maya pada ini.

Agak berbelit bahasa yang saya gunakan..?sukar untuk difahami..?Cuba untuk menjadi seorang seniman, walau hanya pada tinta....mungkin suatu percubaan yang gagal....kalau begitu takdirnya, baik saya menulis terus apa yang mahu di luahkan...

Tadi terlihat seorang lelaki bersama seorang wanita dan dua orang kanak2 berusia antara 9 bulan dan 4 tahun.Lelaki mungkin si ayah dan wanita tadi adalah si ibu...yang menyedihkan saya adalah, ketika ayah tadi bermain dan berbual bual dengan kanak kanak tersebut, beliau juga terus terusan merokok dan kelihatan nya amat selesa dan bangga dengan perbuatan nya.Bagi saya, sikap ini amat tidak bertanggungjawab dan si ibu tadi juga tidak cuba untuk melindungi anak anak beliau dari diperlakukan begitu...Kenapa saya berpendapat begitu..??

1) Seorang ayah patut menjadi contoh terbaik kepada anak anak, apalagi pada usia begitu muda.Merokok didepan anak anak bukan lah sesuatu yang boleh dimasukkan dalam kategori baik..

2)Semua orang tahu merokok membahayakan kesihatan kepada siperokok, tetapi kesan bahaya ini lebih buruk kepada orang disekeliling yang bukan perokok, apa lagi kanak2 yang sedang membesar.Paling malang sekali mereka tidak memilh untuk berada di persekitaran tersebut..

3)Anak 2 tadi yang telah terbiasa dengan asap rokok sejak kecil, besar kemungkinan akan menjadi perokok pada usia yang terlalu  muda, tidak hairanlah kenapa begitu banyak peningkatan jumlah perokok di dunia, terutama didunia ketiga walaupun usaha untuk menyedarkan masyrakat tentang bahaya rokok semakin banyak di jalankan dan harga rokok juga semakin mahal.

4)Kanak2 tadi adalah golongan lemah, mereka tidak tahu dan tidak berupaya untuk mengelak dari
terdedah kepada asap rokok, walaupun bukan atas pilihan mereka, namun secara tidak langsung dipaksa oleh ibubapa tadi untuk menerima apa juga kehendak ibu bapa tersebut,amat malang sekali apabila ibu bapa lebih pentingkan kehendak sendiri, dari keperluan untuk melindugi anak anak.Ini terbukti dari apa yang terjadi ke atas kanak2 berusia 2 tahun yang hangat diperkatakan dalam beberapa suratkhabar akhir akhir ini.

Saya memang tidak berhak untuk menilai ibubapa yang terlibat, kerana saya tidak memakai kasut mereka, tidak berada di posisi mereka dan tidak melalui ranjau duri kehidupan yang mereka lalui, saya cuma tertanya2 tentang beberapa perkara apabila membaca kisah menyayat hati kanak2 berusia 2 tahun yang tidak berupaya tersebut dan sepatutnya dilindungi dengan apa cara sekalipun oleh ibunya..

1)Si ibu telah menerima ugutan melalui panggilan telefon pada pukul 11.30 pagi, bahawa kanak kanak itu akan di ajar secukupnya kerana telah kencing merata2 dirumah oleh lelaki yang disyaki, tetapi beliau seolah2 tidak mengambil kata kata ugutan tersebut secara serius dan tidak mengambil apa apa langkah pencegahan.

2)Apabila lelaki itu datang mengambil si ibu pada pukul 5.30petang dan memberitahu beliau bahawa kanak kanak tersebut telah koma, beliau tidak bergegas balik, malah singgah di kedai untuk membeli lampin pakai buang dan hanya sampai dirumah pada pukul 7.30 petang.Anak yang katanya sedang nazak, tinggal berseorangan...astagfirullahalazim...Saya boleh bayangkan penderitaan kanak2 tersebut dan walaupun tidak pernah kenal beliau, apa yang berlaku keatasnya membuatkan saya menangis...Al fatihah untukmu wahai penghuni syurga.

Dari 2 peristiwa diatas, saya boleh mengambil kesimpulan bahawa keprihatinan ibubapa terhadap tanggungjawab melindungi anak2 mereka semakin terhakis dari jiwa sesetengah dari kita...nauzubillahminzallik.

Apakah penyebabnya?Apa yang perlu kita lakukan?bagaimana mahu mengubah dan mengatasi perkara tersebut...???
Banyak persoalan yang perlu dijawab, banyak tanggungjawab yang mahu dipikul, ramai yang terlibat, malah setiap dari kita bertanggungjawab...jangan lah kita menyalahkan kerajaan pulak apabila gagal dalam menjalankan tanggungjawab paling asas alam kehidupan...wallahualam.

Semoga kita jadikan setiap perkara yang berlaku dipersekitaran kita sebagai iktibar, yang baik jadikan pengajaran dan yang tidak berapa baik, dijadikan sempadan dan marilah kita beriltizam untuk melindungi golongan yang lebih lemah dan tidak berdaya, bukan sebaliknya, insyaAllah.

Kata2 terakhir dari saya:

Kalau anda tidak dapat melindungi mereka, janganlah jadi golongan yang menyakiti mereka...

May your engine never run out of fuel

Hello everyone...

It has really been a long time since I have written anything on this blank page of Mr Blog...long indeed that if it were a human being, it would be sulking and refusing to be ever written anything on it anymore...fortunately, this Mr Blog has a lot more sense of humor than any human being I've encountered so far.....

Anyway, what prompted me to write today...?I was doing a little reading on something I have had a great interest in, since I was a young girl and I found the information was great and I feel obliged to share with anyone who cares.....

What I wanna share with you all is about being an entrepreneur.....for the wannabes out there..

Here goes:

1) You do not need a grand vision when you start a new business.Those with grand visions usually spend most of their time daydreaaming....

*So No Big Idea is ok.....But you do Need a good and solid idea on how your business model can compete.

*Intimate industry knowledge will allow you to stand a fighting chance of surviving in the early years, otherwise it will be a very steep learning curve indeed and you must be prepared for the bumpy ride of your life....

2) Business plans based on personal viewpoints and beliefs are flawed and doomed to fail

3) Forecast numbers plucked from the clouds are unrealistic and unattainable

What needed to be done are:

1) Start small

2) Think big (margins)

3) Stay slim ( overhead )

4) Avoid fat ( hopes )

5 Count right

6) Put your head down and get on with the business --> JUST DO IT

The journey of an entrepreneur normally:

1) starts with a glamour of hope, followed by

2) some sprinkling of success and

3) visions of grandeur, finally

4) the reality of need to reinvent itself caught up, if not you will just fade away...in this man eats man dynamic world.

Final remarks:

If you have poor vision, put on your glasses, so that you can see clearly the road ahead, warning signboards, speed limits, road bumps and potholes.May your engine never run out of fuel....

Finally , until I get inspired to write or share again, remember these: As an entrepreneur, you need these; SOLID BUSINESS MODEL AND ABILITY TO REINVENT......until then, live with passion and take care.....

Unfortunate Incidence....

Hello everyone....

Assalamualaikum semua....

Hari ini 18/1/2012, bermakna telah 18 hari kita menyusuri liku2 perjalanan kehidupan di tahun 2012...beberapa hari lagi, kaum cina akan menyambut perayaan tahun baru cina...tahun baru ini adalah tahun naga....apa signifikannya tahun naga...??entah, saya kurang arif,tetapi yang saya tahu,ramai yang mahu dan akan melahirkan anak ditahun ini....begitu juga kucing saya yang bernama BIBIK.....mungkin akan melahirkan anaknya tidak lama lagi kalau tragedi malang pagi tadi tidak terjadi....

Menangis air mata darah sekalipun....kucing saya tak mungkin akan hidup semula...Yang buat saya terkilan adalah atas beberapa perkara/fakta tentang BIBIK ini...

1. kenapa BIBIK...? mula2 dipanggil baby....dah besar jadi BIBIK....
2. Bibik anak Penyek....lahir 15/3/2011
3. Bibik 3 beradik...cuma dia yang ada sehingga hari ini..
4. Dia paling manja antara semua kucing....setiap kali balik rumah...Bibik sambut...sebelum saya sampai pintu...dia dah berdiri depan pintu dan sebaik pintu dibuka dia menerkam masuk....terus kedapur....ingatkan lapar...tetapi apabila diberi makan...dia tak nak...akhirnya dia mengikut saya kemana jua....duduk dan baring pun sebelah.....manja sungguh
5. Bibik tengah mengandung....sapa punya angkara..??kurang periksa....kesian dia..
6. Apa terjadi pagi tadi?? Almost 7 am...dah lewat!!selalunya I leave the house by 6.50am the most....tetiba Anis was screaming from outside asking me to close the autogate..saying the cat was trapped...I closed it...she screamed/crying the cat was not moving...I went to the gate...my heart skipped a beat, my BIBIK was there motionless...I felt her body, soft and still warm....but she was gone...carried the body, put on the pavement...ohhhh God....no injury but her mouth was distorted on right...and her right hind leg was bleeding...cannot see any injury because of her fur....but there was lots of blood on the gate...i am still trying to figure out how did it happened?how could such thing happened?I didn't hear her screams?did anis hear her??The gate move very slowly.....why couldn't she escaped...? I spoke to her...I stayed with her for only 10minutes....I didn't feel like going to work...put her in a bag...put on the table on the terrace and told anis not to disturb her until evening...

I feel so sad...I cried all the way to work...and it was jammed like mad and took me almost 2 hours to reach my hospital....(usually only 15-20minutes..)And am still crying while writing this entry...luckily, this is nearing cny...usually hospitals are very quiet during this time....and i boleh layan perasaan sedih sorang2...

People may say...alaaaa....kucing saja pun....!!! I think my family members know how much i love my cats...they are part of the family, they share my food etc...husband I kata, I love the cats more...to some people or my family members...it seems that way because I have no other expectation of them other than being cat...being themselves...I accept them for what they are and their limitation...in totality...that is why you won't hear me marah or pukul my cats...to me...they are here in this world to be loved and that is what they are getting....unlike human beings...

It will take sometime for me to recover from this incidence, I probably have to put the blame on myself...I should have put them back inside the cage...if only...!!!!!!!

I just feel very helpless now...until my next posting, I NEED TO REMEMBER THIS....TIME IS THE GREATEST HEALER OF ALL....so until it happen, I may cry from time to time thinking about this unfortunate incidence....until then...I shall live with passion...:-''((

live a smart,healthy and empowering life

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