Are we sincere enough.....????

Hi friends,
It has been ages since my last entry; sometimes I just so bogged down by other things and forget to update blog or even the status on my FB….
Nowadays I guess this is the trend most people would follow….to pour out what they think, what they feel onto the cyber world...be it on FB, blog or twitter….
A lot has been said and written about sincerity of our intention in our relationship, friendship and all our dealings with other human being...be it in the real world or in the cyber world. I don’t know about you all guys but I don’t normally do things unless I feel like doing it sincerely….I don’t add or approve request on FB unless I want to….
Anyway, it doesn’t matter if I am feeling sincere or other people think otherwise, coz at the end of the day it is God who is the ultimate judge of everyone of us, our thoughts, our thinking and everything else for that matter…it is not me..Not you, not the boss, not your spouse, parents or your best friend.
We can write until our fingers are sore, until there is no more space to write or we can talk and argue until we are blue on the face but at the end of the day it is not up to us….
Sometimes even we ourselves are not sure what we have in mind or how we feel….sometimes we feel we are at our utmost sincerity, but we still cast doubts in our mind whether we are doing it purely because of god, really sincere with no hidden agenda what so ever….
Other people also judge us, our intentions based on their perception…their perception of us of course has nothing to do with us most of the time…but has everything to do with themselves…
As for my self, I do get a lot of judgments from people, mainly unknown to me…strangers, new people who come to see us for services…people even judged me as damn too serious on the FB…I don’t know how they can pass judgments on someone they never met before…but this is precisely my point…people judged you or me.. Based on how they feel and think about us, not what we do or say etc. Most of the time they failed to look at the bigger picture, taking everything into consideration before passing any judgments….likewise here, in term of sincerity…you and I can tell people that we are sincere…at the end of the day, it is not what we tell them that matters….but actions and results speak louder than words….
Anyway…what ever is written here are my thoughts and mine alone…you don’t have to agree or disagree…sometimes compromise is the better option...But of course the best is when we go for win-win situations…or agree to disagree…
When we agree to disagree, we accept someone for who they are, for what they are. We stop being manipulative to get them to agree with our ideas. We are happy to live and work together and stop questioning their or our own sincerity in every moves or dealings….
Before I pen down….I would like to share something with you all…I got this from the many books I read daily…thus can’t really remember who said this and from which book but I believe there is truth in these words….

Watch your Thoughts, they become words.
Watch your words, they become actions.
Watch your actions, they become habits.
Watch your Habits, they become character.
Watch your Character, for it becomes your Destiny...

Until my next posting, let us try not to pass judgment if we don’t know much about that person, live with passion and take care…